In this monthly Hard Knox essay Amanda explores the “third way of being”: not alone, not truly together, but that warm middle state where you want someone near without the obligation of actually meeting them. It’s the feeling of knowing your mom is down the hall at 2am. It’s reading on the couch while someone cooks in the other room.
What begins as a parenting anecdote unfolds into a sharp, philosophical meditation on technology, presence, and why the easiest forms of connection may be quietly eroding our capacity for both real closeness and true aloneness.
Best enjoyed with someone nearby who you don’t have to talk to.
